We may talk about it, sing about it, and discuss it with others, but insecurity is never understood until you are personally experiencing it.
Many times, we feel like we are not good enough to be friends or lovers for some people, and often, we feel like we are never good enough for anything. When someone asks you why? Why do you feel like that? You would probably have answers right at the tip of your tongue, like:
– Because I am not smart enough, I am not pretty enough, I am not educated enough, I am just not good enough…
Those answers are nothing but excuses that can be heard loud and clear from millions of people, but they would be just scratching the surface. The reasons behind insecurity are different from one person to another, and they are deeper than you could ever expect.
This is why people prefer to draw into these insecurities and ruin their chances and relationships to avoid any rejection or heartbreak. Instead, they should be going back to the roots, fix the issue, and be the best version of them!
Do you need the support and comfort of a long-term relationship? Then insecurity should be tossed out the window.
It is important to acknowledge that when someone is treating you poorly, the reasonable response is to feel insecure (and the relationship should end!), but when your partner treats you well, then it is time to do some changes…