Last Updated on March 5, 2021
You can’t admit this… even to yourself!
You don’t need a psychologist to tell you if you are attracted to someone, desiring them, or falling deeply in love with them. Some scientists will tell you that your attractions are a quirk of biochemistry igniting your hormones and making your whole body tremble, and your friends will say that he/she is very attractive with gold hearts, as simple as that.
But, why do we feel weak around men with big muscles? Or women with red lipstick?
No matter how many times science prove to us that love and attraction is nothing but hormones and animal instinct, there is still something special and distinct about the person we are attracting to that makes us suddenly lose our senses and feel complete weakness in our knees.
However, maybe you had a good experience when it comes to dating and you know exactly what’s making you feel weak, or maybe you just opened your eyes to this new exciting life and you are interested to discover what exactly ignites the butterflies in your tummy.
In both cases, welcome! I am here to help you figure out your secret weakness when it comes to love and attraction.
All you have to do is look at the picture and make a mental note of the very first thing you see.
If you saw the Boatman first, then the most attractive thing that makes you weak in the knees is when someone makes you go out of your own head!
You are currently struggling with a few self-esteem issues. So, when you meet someone who can help you out of those thoughts, it feels like magic, which makes you come back for them every day for more.
Love is beautiful, but it doesn’t help us to be whole. As long as you keep things in perspective, you will understand that no one can really fix you except YOU! But, it feels wonderful to find someone who understands and supports us when the burden of life gets very heavy on our shoulder.
If the couple was the first thing you saw, then the most attractive thing that makes you weak in the knees is the sense of safety and security.
You want to be cool, free, and single like most of your friends who are living life wildly. But for you, there is something about building a life with someone that is very appealing to you. In fact, that’s the only reason why go on dates anyway!
The only advice I have for you is: don’t rush those feelings because it will come with time anyway. If you forced it, it simply won’t work.
Yes, security is great, but it doesn’t hurt to live at the edge from time to time.
3The Empty Boat
If the empty boat was the first thing you saw, then the most attractive thing that makes you weak in the knees is the feeling of driving yourself to the unknown.
You are not scared to meet someone new and fall blindly in love with them, it is very scary and that’s what makes it so attractive and appealing to you.
However, keep in mind that people can be more dangerous than you expect, it is not all about the fun adventures. Plus, it is also exciting to know someone “you are attracted to” on a deeper level, too!
Don’t let the unknown take control of you.
4The Masked Woman
If the masked woman was the first thing you saw, then the most attractive thing that makes you weak in the knees is the feeling of the chase.
The first days of falling in love are your favorite, those days when you are not boyfriend and girlfriend yet, but you are about to start consider yourself “a thing”. You just can’t help it, it is very amusing and attractive to you.
Those early-bird days are incredibly romantic and we won’t trade them for the world. But if you dared to go a little deeper, love will feel and taste so much better!