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Last Updated on February 13, 2021
Not many people can walk away from their past without wondering about it, from their decisions to their failed friendships or ex-lovers. Some things may be a part of the past, but they can still haunt us in the present. It’s normal to ask yourself if another person is also thinking of you, especially if it’s an ex-boyfriend of yours. After all, no matter how long it lasts, a relationship still consists of a deep connection, and that type of connection doesn’t just fade away because you want it to. Nobody is blaming you for thinking about this person. However, instead of being anxious while wondering and assuming the worst, why don’t you look below to figure out the signs your ex misses you and wants you back.
1. He’s always on your DM’s
He’s what you call an active stalker, but it may be considered cute because it’s your ex. Things didn’t work out, but they might if there’s a second opportunity. He still thinks there’s a chance, and the feelings are there for him. If they weren’t, he wouldn’t be consistently messaging you. Remember that these messages could also be in the form of an argument. When people are too proud to express themselves in a healthy, respectful way, they might turn it into an argument, making you feel like you’re the guilty one while secretly expecting you to apologize.
2. He often asks you if you’re interested in someone
How to know if your ex misses you? Does he ask you if you’re seeing someone? Interest in a new guy? Still single? If he has asked you any of these questions, then he’s still hung up on you. He might try to make it sound casual, but deep down, he’s nervous about the answer to his question. He’s asking it while wishing for your answer to be no. This can be a chance to put everything on the table, and even if you’re not seeing someone, he’ll get the hint that you’ve moved on.
3. He tries to make you jealous
He’s not getting your attention, or the “positive” attention he wants from you, so what does he do? He decides to tease you. Posting pictures on social media with other girls, reposting other girls’ selfies, or even faking a relationship. People go to extreme lengths to cause any reaction to the other person. Whether it’s good or bad, they want to get under your skin because if they do, it means you still care. Is it something that a grown, respectable man does? Of course not, it’s incredibly childish to act like this, but it might be a way for you to talk to them, even if it results in a heated discussion.
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