How to know If You’re in A Fake Relationship

Last Updated on January 29, 2021

6. You never talk about the future

When you love someone, you’ll feel like you want to spend the rest of your life with them. So, it’s more than normal that the two of you will discuss the future. Yet, if they don’t feel the same way, chances are they will try to avoid any conversations regarding your future together. This can mean the following: One, they don’t care about having a future with you, or two, they have never thought about. Either way, none of these options is positive.

7. They show indifference

If you have a person with whom you intend to share your life, you will feel many things, both positive and negative. But you will not feel indifferent, that’s for sure. If your partner acts like they don’t care, maybe it’s time to let them go if they feel detached and unengaged. It’s not fair for you to devote your time and energy to someone who doesn’t do the same.

8. You don’t feel comfortable in this relationship

You might try to ignore your gut, but there are some feelings you can’t avoid. Even if you try to brush off the way they make you feel, deep down, you know you are not comfortable with the situation you are in. Don’t put up a facade to keep someone who doesn’t value you around. You deserve to be yourself entirely and to have someone who loves you for who you are.

9. They are withdrawn

If your partner has always been an introvert, being quiet is probably not new to you. But if they appear to be detached, distant, and overall withdrawn, and this didn’t use to be a common behavior coming from them, then it’s something you should pay attention to. This is not healthy behavior for sure.

10. You know something is off

If you’ve been feeling that something is off for quite some time, maybe it’s time to listen to your instincts. Be honest with yourself: Is this a real relationship? Is this what you deserve? If you are the one making all the efforts for this relationship to work, leave it. Imagine all the amazing things you could achieve if you used that energy on yourself instead!