When we communicate our thoughts and feelings with others, we mostly tend to not utter hurtful words that can lead us to hurt the other, but we can’t deny the moments when our anger, stress or nervousness get the best of us, so we end up saying things we really didn’t want to say…
The incredible poet Maya Angelou once said: “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
We need to understand that our choice of words can lead us to create an impression that could become a long-lasting one.
You might be a very good person with a kind heart, but if you didn’t choose your words wisely around others, you may end up being misunderstood, and therefore, losing them. There will be no one to blame but your mind and your quick-to-respond tongue.
This is why there is a secret behind charismatic people and their decision of using the same phrases again, and again. If you want other people to like you, then we have got the right words for you!