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Last Updated on January 12, 2021
4. You don’t see eye to eye
Disagreeing on everyday things or agreeing to disagree is completely normal in any relationship. But when it comes to future plans, it’s important that both people in the relationship agree on a future together, whether it is building a family or traveling the world, both people need to have similar values and desires. A red flag that you don’t see eye to eye is if one person is constantly asking about future plans and the other is simply trying to “live the moment”. This can be bittersweet because even though it’s enough of a reason for a breakup, you never know what the future holds. Our goals and desires are constantly changing and maybe you don’t see eye to eye right now but who knows, maybe in the future, you will.3. Bad communication
One of the most common relationship problems is a lack of communication or not knowing how to communicate at all. During our entire lives, we are fed with lies about what a successful, happy relationship should look like, one where the other person happens to magically know what’s on your mind and read your thoughts 24/7. In reality, this doesn’t happen, of course, which means that couples need to put the extra effort in order to have effective healthy communication within the relationship. This can be fixed; all you need to do is try your best to be an active listener and truly pay attention to your partner’s feelings. Keep in mind that your partner will only open up to you if you let them, so make them feel safe and help them trust you.2. Lack of intimacy
Even though it’s normal for couples to lose the sexual side to their relationship once they get older, there’s no excuse for lack of intimacy. Intimacy is being close to one another, it’s a kiss on the cheek, an unexpected hug, or staying up until 2 am sharing thoughts with one another. It doesn’t matter if you’re in a new or long term relationship, intimacy is important, physical contact is important, and letting each other know you need their touch is also key for any relationship.- Advertisement -
