10 Signs He Doesn’t Value You As A Person

Last Updated on December 24, 2020

4. The flirting stops once they have you

Everything is super romantic in the beginning, you go on dates, they express their feelings, you fall in love, live a couple of months like a happy couple, and then, suddenly, you are no longer viewed romantically. There’s no romance, no flirting, sexual activities diminishes, and so on. It’s common for couples to become comfortable and the spark to fade a little when a lot of time goes by, but that doesn’t mean you should just let the whole relationship crumble. Just because you’re in a “serious” relationship, it doesn’t mean the romance should end, and if they stop looking at you the same way they did at the beginning of things, then that’s just one of the signs he doesn’t deserve you anymore.

5. They are not proud of you

If you feel like your partner is ashamed of you or not proud of you, then they’re not the person you should be with. Everyone has their ups and downs, but you should never be ashamed of the person you’re dating. They should be proud to introduce you to their friends and family because of how amazing you are. Even if you’re just an ordinary person in the real world, you shouldn’t be for them.

6. They don’t listen

Does he serve me? Well, if they don’t listen or pay attention to you, then they’re doing a bad job as a partner and a friend. Do you often have to repeat information because the other person “forgets?” If so, then they were not even listening in the first place. Some people may get distracted easily, but they should always show interest in whatever you have to say, whether that’s an argument you had at work, what you want for Christmas, or even some random chit-chat.

7. They keep lying.

One of the last signs of a toxic person is if they lie constantly. You are constantly catching your partner lying, even about small things. Whether they’re pathological liars or not, the important lesson here is that honesty is the best policy, and who would want to be with someone that can’t be truthful? This will only cause trust issues and build up insecurities. Lying shouldn’t be normalized, so if he lies without even showing remorse, it’s best to stay away.