Last Updated on January 8, 2020
#6 – He is feeling chained
A lawyer who has dealt with many divorces said that separating is very painful indeed, but it is especially painful when suddenly he can’t be a full-time parent. This is the main reason why many people decide to not go for a divorce, even if the couple were miserable.
It is not surprising to lose love for one another after spending years together, but responsibilities are very strong chains that can stop anyone from leaving their families. So instead, they start looking for love and happiness elsewhere.
#7 – He doesn’t want to go through the pain of a divorce
The word “divorce” is enough to awake millions of bad feelings, add to that the fights, disagreements, dealing with lawyers, negotiating about time management for children, and splitting property.
Many men prefer to keep everything that way so no one would ever have to go through all the anger, yelling, tears, and pain. Tolerating an unhealthy relationship is easier than splitting and finding a new lover. Plus, he wouldn’t want to make his kids and wife go through all of that!
#8 – He understands the mistake he made
Many men have opened up about their cheating experiences, but there is one that interests us the most with his story:
The man actually had an affair with his wife’s close friend, and he realized that it was a horrible mistake so he is the one in pain! The issue is he doesn’t know what to do or whether he should tell his wife.
There are many opinions about whether he should tell her or not, and most importantly, he doesn’t want to break up with her because it was nothing but an awful mistake that he wanted to fix. The solution could be drowning in regret or facing the problem as long as it won’t cost him his wife.
It is not as easy as you expected, but if you were in their shoes, would you forgive your partner for cheating?
