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Last Updated on November 2, 2020
People in a committed and serious relationship are well aware that good communication is the key to keeping things moving forward healthily and peacefully. However, there is unhealthy communication, and there are some sensitive topics that should be avoided at all costs because
- No one will benefit from discussing them
- There is no actual point to start a conversation around them
- They can actually corrupt your relationship (when they really shouldn’t, but everyone handles things differently, so it’s better to be safe than sorry).
Here are the seven conversations you should never have with your partner if you want to avoid useless arguments in a relationship.
1. Avoid Bragging About Your Previous Intimate experiences
People in a healthy relationship should have no problem talking about their previous partners. In fact, Open communication about the past should be encouraged. But there is a difference between talking about a past relationship and praising your ex’s sexual abilities, and the second one is not recommended. It’s okay to keep the memory, but you don’t have to share it with your current partner and make them feel bad about themselves. There is no point in comparing the two experiences, especially if you are going to hurt the person you are with now.
2. Don’t Be brutal About Your Opinions
Relationship arguments are normal, especially in a long-term relationship. But some of them can easily be avoided if you keep yourself from expressing your opinions so bluntly. So what if you don’t like your partner’s new haircut? There are a thousand ways to let them know without being rude or insensitive. If you are the type of person who keeps expressing their opinion without any regard for how you make your partner feel, you are building a toxic relationship, and guess who the toxic partner is?
3. Insulting Their Friends Or Their Family
You should not feel obligated to like every person your significant other likes, but there is no need to be harsh about it. If you ever have a strong opinion about a friend or a family member of your partner, you can express it politely. Avoid insulting the people they care about, as this can lead to a discussion that can become serious enough to break up the whole relationship.
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