1. They Feel The Need To Look Through Your Phone
When there’s a lack of trust in a relationship, the first thing that usually comes to our minds is going through our partner’s phone.
Now more than ever, our phones contain a lot of our personal information. From pictures to passwords, even our bank details! And of course, last but not least, it’s through our phones that we communicate with everyone.
When in a toxic relationship, it’s very likely you might have caught your boyfriend or girlfriend looking through your phone from time to time. Maybe they do it right in front of you, or perhaps they’re sneaky about it.
In any case, your partner shouldn’t feel the need to look at your phone if they trusted you. Of course, cheating in a relationship is a major turn off and a deal-breaker for most people, but it’s up to you to let your partner know you’d never do that to them, and it’s up to them to accept that.
Agreeing with your partner to let them go through your phone is just a big invasion of privacy that won’t cure the lack of trust. Instead, it will only build an obsessive behavior over it.