Last Updated on July 28, 2020
Through healthy communication, you should be able to make your partner see your point of view. Tell them about how you’ve been feeling put down and sad about their words and attitudes.
If they change and acknowledge your feelings good, if not, then maybe it’s time to break up.
5. Ask directly what the problem is
One of the biggest mistakes in relationship arguments is ignoring the elephant in the room, and by elephant, we mean the actual issue.
How many times have you seen or experienced fights ending with “Ok fine” or “Whatever?”
Normally, most people don’t enjoy being told what to do or being confronted with the reality of things, which makes arguments end in a passive-aggressive tone. Of course, this isn’t healthy nor the best way on how to fix the issue.
Most of the time, people feel so mad or hurt that they don’t even realize what the problem is, and they choose to end the fight as quickly as possible so that they can move on.
Of course, this is a giant snowball of consequences in the making—all due to unclear communication and big egos.
Remember to always ask clearly about what the real problem is and avoid getting defensive about it. Understanding what’s going on is key to solve any issue a relationship might have.
Ultimately, you should be able to evaluate your relationship and how you feel about it. If there’s no respect, communication, or love, there’s not much to rebuild a healthy relationship.
But if your partner is going through a tough phase, then you should help them with it instead of making it worse by leaving or arguing with them.
As long as you have clear communication and respect each other, there’s no issue you can’t fix or problem you can’t solve, always remember that!
