Top 5 Reasons Smarter People Don’t Fall In Love Easily!

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

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Falling in love in movies has a lot of people thinking about unrealistic relationship goals. Of course, cinema is the one to blame: everyone finds the perfect match, everything ends well, and then there is the “soul-mate” element. But this doesn’t seem to have the same effect on people with higher IQs.

Because people with higher IQs are too focused on excelling in most aspects in their lives, finding a match can often be rather difficult, translating into hardships when it comes to finding someone to love or even maintaining a long-lasting relationship with.

But why exactly do intelligent people have a harder time falling in love? Well, probably because they have REAL relationship goals that go beyond that cinematic conception.

Learn the five ways that smarter people have a hard time falling in love.

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1. They value their independence

Intelligent people are often independent thinkers, and this personality trait extends to other areas of their lives. They do feel the need for love, but because they value their independence above everything else in their lives, they often face the fear of commitment – not exactly because they don’t want to commit, but because they are afraid of the ways that relationships can restrain their freedom.

How to overcome fear of commitment? Well, basically they just need to find a partner that will respect their independence and give them space. This way they won’t feel trapped and will be more likely to maintain the relationship.

2. They don’t rush into things

Smart people are often single by choice and not because they lack options. They recognize the benefits of being by themselves, grow as individuals, and reflect on their past life experiences in order to avoid repeating patterns they already experienced.

To some, this might look like a manifestation of emotional deprivation disorder, but in truth, they just really think things through before moving forward.

3. They are over-analyzers by nature

Their brains don’t really work in a basic manner and they tend to overthink every single little detail of what happens around them. This extends to relationships, making them more prone to detect, for example, early signs of emotional abuse.

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