Last Updated on January 6, 2020
©Nick Notas
Relationships are hard to wrap one’s head around—love relationships are the hardest of them all. Take the example of long distance relationships.
Some of them work, making the couple very strong; others fail miserably, leaving the couple feeling… well, miserable! What is love, therefore, in a relationship? More importantly, what is a healthy relationship and how does one have one?
Failure to answer these questions has made many long term relationships suffer. Many women, for example, choose to end relationships with men because they fail to answer these questions. Moreover, when women start to sense the signs of an emotionally abusive relationship, they start looking for the closest way out.
If you want to know the safest way to a healthy relationship, then read about these 10 things that make women decide to leave an abusive relationship.
#1 – He Does Not Want to Introduce Change
Consistency is good; too much of it, however, is boring. Not all women like to change things up constantly, but to some degree, they all do. The frequency with which they ask for change is different from one woman to another.
If you’re not a fan of ending a long term relationship, then you might want to introduce some novelties to your life with your woman. Otherwise, she will get bored and leave you to your consistency.
#2 – He Says She Has High Expectations
The surest way on how to end a long term relationship is to accuse your wife or girlfriend of having high expectations. Saying that will signal for her that what she’s in is not a healthy relationship and that it’s high time she broke things off.
What is love in a relationship if not trying to meet your girlfriend’s expectations? If they seem high and unrealistic to you, it doesn’t mean they are. Believe us, you will only giving her a viable excuse to break things up with you.
