1. The way you look
One of the things your partner should never ask you to change is, of course, your appearance. After all, they’ve met you before deciding to date you!
If your partner comments about something you cannot change or makes you feel insecure about your body, you know he is not the right one for you. However, if your partner nicely encourages you to be healthier when you’re overweight, there is no harm in that.