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Last Updated on January 25, 2021
We’re human beings, and at some point, we doubt ourselves, the people around us, and of course, our connections with others, especially relationships. Sometimes we can be part of an amazing relationship, yet we still have doubts or create doubts in our heads that end up being the cause of a breakup. What makes a good relationship? Is it true love like we see in the movies? Probably not. The truth is, most of the time, we think something is wrong in the relationship, but that’s just based on what society tells us. Most of the time, the media shows you that a relationship needs to go a certain path or do certain things to survive, but that’s not true at all. If you want honest relationship advice, keep reading to find out if your relationship is meant to be successful.1 . You don’t have the same interests and views
One of the first things we look for in a potential partner is similarities. We want them to like the same music we do, enjoy the same hobbies and so on. But why do we do that? Do we want a copy of ourselves to date? You might be an amazing person, but dating someone like you could be extremely boring long term. Besides, when two people are too alike, the couple tends to focus on that instead of the real problems. For example, if someone cheats, the other person would think about everything they have in common as a reason not to break up. Of course, it’s nice to have some common interests, but when two people have different views and interests, they enrich each other. Think about how interesting it is to bring something new to someone else’s life, that’s exactly why people come into our lives, to teach us something, and the more they have to teach, the longer they’ll stay.2. You don’t plan vacations together
Just because you are dating, that doesn’t mean you have to bring your other half everywhere you go. What happened to the girl’s trip? Or a solo getaway? These things don’t have to disappear just because you’re in a romantic relationship. We understand that traveling with your other half may sound like a great idea. Still, you can make many other trips by yourself or with some friends, which means you don’t have to be dependent on your partner to travel anywhere, and if you love your partner, you’ll miss them, which will only make your relationship stronger. Besides, as you’re aware, couples don’t share the same interests all the time, so maybe your partner prefers to chill by the pool in a 5-star resort, and you, on the other hand, would rather go camping in nature and hike every day. But why would you give up your desires and wills for the other person? You can still do everything you wish, so don’t let a relationship stop you.- Advertisement -
