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Last Updated on January 26, 2021
3. They don’t make any efforts in the relationship
Every relationship requires work – even the healthy, strong, lasting, happy relationships that sound like a fairytale are demanding, and that’s maybe why they work out so well. The reason behind the failure of so many relationships is often the fact that one of the partners is not ready to make any efforts. They only want to enjoy the good things about being with someone, and whenever something complicated comes up, they don’t show any interest in getting serious.4. You feel that they don’t care about your needs
A healthy relationship is all about caring for each other and having someone you can rely on. This means that your partner will care about your happiness and your needs, and they will try to do everything in their power to add value to your life and to make it better. These efforts should be mutual, of course. But if you bring up your concerns regarding the relationship you two have, and your partner dismisses your feelings and doesn’t seem willing to change, you need to consider that they might be dating you for the sole purpose of obtaining personal gratification. Relationships like that don’t work.5. They want to parade you
If you rarely go on intimate dates, and instead your partner insists on taking you to parties or group hangouts where they get to show you off, that’s a bad sign. If someone loves you, they will want to spend alone time with you – playful time, cuddling time, even sexy time. However, if someone loves the idea of you more than the person you are, they will be more invested in parading you then in caring for you.6. They were too quick moving the relationship to the next level
Someone who desperately wants a relationship will try to skip the “getting to know each other” phase and go directly to the dating phase. But falling for this is a rookie mistake, because how are you supposed to love someone you barely even know? The fact that they want to make your relationship public so bad can be a sign that they have painted this perfect love picture, and they think of you as the perfect fit for it. The problem with this? Besides the lack of true feelings, this “pretend” relationship will be filled with empty promises, and it can cost you your identity because you will feel the pressure to not deviate from the idea they have of you.- Advertisement -
