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Last Updated on January 15, 2021
4. Not wanting to meet each other’s families
Meeting each other’s parents and friends can be a stressful activity, and most people (even those in happy, healthy relationships,) tend to avoid it. But there comes a time when you feel like it’s the next step to solidify the relationship, and if you love your partner, you’re going to have a very strong will to do it, even if it sounds scary. If you don’t get yourself into a relationship because you like this other person and see a future with them, then you could’ve just hooked up or remained friends. Also, if someone comes to a relationship thinking they don’t want to meet their partner’s family, that just shows a lack of interest and, consequently, lack of love.3. There’s dishonesty
Have you ever lied to your partner or felt like they are lying to you? If so, ask yourself why. There’s no real excuse for someone to lie, especially in a relationship. Sure we all lie to our parents, friends, and coworkers, but the person you’re in a relationship with should be someone you fully trust, and they should trust you too. So is there a reason for being dishonest in your relationship? This is the question that will remain in your head and potentially cause relationship arguments and trust issues, which will lead to the downfall of the relationship.2. There’s no physical attraction
The intimate attraction is key for any relationship to work long term. And it doesn’t always mean the actual physical act of love. It just means that you desire this person and you feel compelled to hug them, kiss them, or even take things to the next level because you feel this out-of-body energy that tells you to do so. This is what means being attracted to someone, it’s sudden impulses, it’s getting lost in each other’s eyes, it’s desiring someone so strongly that you cannot get your hands off them. Of course, we all show our love in different ways. Some people may not be as touchy as others, but deep down, if there’s no attraction, there’s no relationship, and this is also valid for those who only feel sexual attraction and no emotional or intellectual attraction. It’s common knowledge that for a relationship to work, you need to feel these three types of attraction, so if one’s lacking, they’re not the one.- Advertisement -