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Last Updated on January 9, 2021
4. You enjoy challenging emotions
Monogamy is about having one partner for as long as you both want to, while polyamory is being totally okay with seeing others bounding with you and your partner, which means you need to forget about jealousy and those ”are they going to like other people more than me” thoughts! If you can face such challenging emotions as jealousy and insecurity, and having to work them all through with multiple partners, then congratulations, you are not meant to have a monogamous relationship.5. You are not bothered by dating a non-monogamist
Will you actually feel totally fine if you see your partner dating someone else (with your consent, of course)? Answering yes means you and monogamy don’t belong together. However, keep in mind that being poly is way different than wanting to be only affectionate with others without sharing your partner – that’s cheating! Many people confuse the freedom of bed-partners with polyamory, which leads to many unresolved issues with the ones they love. If you want to make sure you are doing something wrong, confront your partner first, and get consent!6. Non-monogamy relationships seem ideal
If you are currently dating one person exclusively, and the idea of polyamory sounds tempting, then I have news for you! However, make sure that the structure of monogamy is what boring you and this exact relationship because if that’s the case, then you just need to break up and find the right partner for you. To know the difference, ask yourself this: How would it feel not being with your current partner? Will you be sad or relieved? finally, remember that polyamory is not for everyone and it’s normal that many people are still confused by it because it’s kind of in vogue right now. If anything makes you uncomfortable, just simply take a step back and realize what will actually work for you… Just don’t hurt yourself or anyone in the process! Good luck.- Advertisement -
