5 Signs You’re Chasing Him And Need To Stop

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Last Updated on February 12, 2020

Once you realize your own worth, it’d be so easy for you to set boundaries, put down your phone, and let him do his crucial part of relational maintenance. Just don’t chase him.

4. You text back immediately

Don’t let the adrenaline rush turn you into the fastest text responder whenever his name appears on the screen. Your heart might be beating like crazy and your mind rushing beyond control, but it’s a normal chemical body reaction that will soon dissipate as you wait and think about how wise it’d be to reply instantly every time he says or posts something online.

If you really care about yourself and wish for the relationship to last and thrive, you need to think about the long-term consequences of your daily little actions.

Never leave everything you’re doing so you can text him back, especially if he doesn’t behave the same way. Dangerously, if this is a routine pattern of behavior, you may not be only chasing him, but he may also be manipulating you to keep you interested in him. In this case, you should quit chasing him immediately and get on with your life.

3. He is being mysterious

If you feel like he never lets you too close to his true self and is putting up thick walls around his life, it’s a sign that he doesn’t want to let you in but the real questions here are: is he making you chase him? And is it worth it?

Be wise and think about whether you’re so invested in the relationship beyond the healthy amount, this meaning you have much more to lose while he could easily walk away with little to no damage.

The wisest thing that you can do is stop chasing him and see what happens.

2. You’re the only one talking about meeting his family

If you always find yourself asking about his family only to have him smoothly change the subject every time, then it’s a big sign that you’re becoming the chaser.

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