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Last Updated on January 28, 2021
4. “Want to come to my place?”
Unless you’re receiving very clear signals that the other person wants to hook up, asking this question is normally a turn off for everyone. It’s only the first date! Why are you already asking this? Even if you meant it like “Let’s go play some games,” everyone will interpret it in a very different way. Some may say yes, some may say no, and others may get offended while the rest will ghost you the day after. It’s always a good idea to wait a couple of dates before asking intimate questions.5. “I still have feelings for my ex.”
Excuse me? Whoever decides to go on dates and says this deserves a bucket of cold water thrown at them. We all understand how hard it is to stop loving someone, but if you’re still in that stage, the last place you should be at is the first date. Nobody wants to date someone who still loves someone else. And if you think that dating new people will help you lose those feelings, it may be a good idea to witch strategies.6. “Were you always this big?”
Weight-related questions are forbidden. Even if you didn’t mean to criticize or sound like an idiot, many people can feel awkward and offended when asked these types of questions. There’s no worst feeling than being on the first date enjoying your pasta and having your date ask you about your body, weight, if you work out or what your body max index is.7. “I’m looking for a wife” or “I’m not looking for a serious relationship.”
Unfortunately, in the dating scene, there are always those looking for no commitment or those looking for extreme commitment. In any case, both options will scare away any potential match. After all, what happened to the middle term? What happened to those who date with the intention to know each other and see where it goes from there? If you want to impress your date, focus on the present moment rather than obsessing about the future.- Advertisement -