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Last Updated on January 26, 2021
2. You Want To Flirt
Lack of eye contact is a major turn-off in the dating world. We know this may be hard to hear if you’re super shy, but you can’t seriously expect to go on a date or make someone fall in love with you without making eye contact for more than 2 seconds, right? Some people say that eyes are the door to our souls, and if that’s true, then dating is about letting the other person get to know the real you. So how to maintain eye contact while on a date? Having a relaxed, yet intriguing eye-contact is key to making the other person feel attracted to you. It doesn’t matter if it’s the first date or if you’re married to this person. Keeping the other person intrigued is the best way you can keep the spark going. You want the other person to feel like they’re getting to know you but also feel like you have a secret. How? By your eyes! It’s very easy to tell apart blank eyes from dreamy eyes, bored eyes from intrigued eyes, and so on. If you like someone, look at them like you’re trying to tell them that you like them without actually saying it out loud, you might not notice how your eyes might change, but the other person will be able to tell for sure. And if you’re going for the kiss or want to be kissed, glancing at their lips and then their eyes is the clearest message you could ever send.3. You Want To Scare Someone
Want to scare someone off without having to resort to verbal communication? Eye contact might save you! We’re not talking about the “dirty look” you might want to give to a random girl that looks at you sideways on the street. We’re talking about serious situations where you might feel threatened by someone. Women have been cat-called all their lives. It doesn’t matter how they dress or where they go. Most of them have felt fear or threatened by a man while in public every single day! Even though a lot of men don’t try anything, you never know what they might do. If you appear to be a reserved person with a lack of self-confidence, you’ll be an easier target. Predators don’t like to feel threatened, so even if you’re scared to death, making eye contact while walking past someone sketchy or looking directly into their eyes when someone keeps harassing you while you’re shopping or working out might be what saves your life! You can show how bad-ass and fearless you are just by a stare, even if you’re shaking inside.- Advertisement -
