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Last Updated on December 14, 2020
[ads shortcode=”td_responsive”]3. Control freak
This problem stems mainly from the previous. Trust issues are usually the reason why someone becomes controlling. No one is owned by anyone else, so there is no point in controlling every step taken. If your partner is some kind of control freak that asks you a thousand questions every time you go out by yourself, that’s definitely a sign you are in a relationship with the wrong person. A healthy relationship presupposes not only trust but also respect for the other person’s personal space and individual freedom.4. Constant arguments
In the vast majority of cases, discussions are important to keep a relationship in a healthy state. The problem is if you start to notice a tendency in your better-half to turn every problem, however small, to an excuse to start a huge and aggressive argument. Apart from being a form of emotional detachment, these arguments can totally affect both the relationship and the lover’s mental health. [ads shortcode=”td_responsive”]5. Different plans for the future
If you can picture yourself alongside your current partner for the rest of this life and the next, then you should probably have a serious conversation regarding your future, because some serious incompatibilities may emerge. Are your ambitions and dreams completely different from your lover’s, and life together implies that one of you gives up those same dreams? Then it may be a good idea to find a more fitting partner.6. Your lover tries to “change” you
This problem can be tricky to identify as it often occurs in a very subtle manner. During a relationship, both parts grow emotionally, fostered by each other. But if one of those parts slowly tries to shape the personality of the other, then there’s a reason for alarm. It is absolutely normal for a person’s attitudes and way of living to affect a relationship, and it is up to both people to talk and try to reach a consensus. To become a totally different person a few months after you start a new relationship: that’s not just abnormal – that’s weird and worrisome.- Advertisement -