Last Updated on January 8, 2020
They still love the family they built together and their heart is filled with emotions for them; the affair is nothing a break that is filled with new fun and adventurous experience to free themselves from their daily duties for a bit.
#3 – Seeking answers about life
There is a story a wife has shared on social media about her cheating husband and the interesting reason why she didn’t leave him.
She admits that it was a disaster and she went through a whole spectrum of negative feelings, but she noticed that he doesn’t want to leave the family so she started asking why, and the answer was very simple:
He didn’t choose to be in an affair because there is something wrong with her, he did it because there is something wrong with him!
Many men believe that having a new woman by their side will change something and make them happier, but that never happens. It is all a psychological issue the husband needs to work on instead of hurting his partner that he still loves.
#4 – He loves his wife, actually!
A real story: One woman was dating a married guy who was a gentleman and a very good family guy. He made it clear that he is planning on leaving his wife, so why was he dating another woman?
Here is the answer from a different man: The married guy has been happily married for over 20 years and he has kids. And yes, he loves his wife, but that will never stop him from cheating because it is a fetish for him. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t feel guilty about it, but that will not stop him from having affairs.
#5 – He doesn’t have the courage to change his life
A man who has lived with his wife for 10 years and has been nothing but a great husband and a loving father, but one day, he met his soulmate.
Mind-Body affair is what the therapist Douglas LaBier calls it, which means a new feeling that is extremely powerful that can consume you from head to toe. In rare cases, some men would prefer to get a divorce but others can’t do it, so they choose to have an affair instead.
