Last Updated on January 8, 2020
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There is no pain worse than finding out the person you love the most is being unfaithful to you, but somehow, they choose to not leave their wives, which makes you have a lot of questions… Isn’t he unhappy in his marriage? Didn’t he replace his wife with a new woman already? Doesn’t he want to break free?
According to a survey, 2.2% of married people have had more than one partner during the period of one year. And according to researchers, between 12% and 25% of married Americans cheat on their partners and men are more likely to do it.
There are many reasons why men seek affairs outside their marriage, but why the majority of them decide to stay? Is it because they never wanted to leave in the first place? Realized the worth of their wives? Or because they are just idiots?
Let’s dig a little deeper into this topic and try to figure out the reason why adulterous husbands don’t leave their wives
#1 – Your home together is still his favorite
You have been there with him for years, you have shared many ups and downs, you take care of him, and you may even have kids together.
To him, you represent this safe place where he can be comfortable and completely himself. The reason why he had an affair could be blamed on his cravings for trying something new and not because he wants to replace you.
The idea of leaving you is not even an option in his head because it won’t be the same anymore. You both might have lost the love and passion for each other, but the respect and friendship remain, which creates a comfort zone that he doesn’t want to lose.
#2 – He wants a break!
There is a dating site for married people who are looking for affairs, and the CEO said in an interview that there are many cases when men have a really beautiful relationship with their wives, but they would still get engaged in an affair without even considering breaking up with their partners. Why?
