Breakups are like car accidents but with emotional injuries only, and surviving these injuries take a lot of time and effort in order to heal properly.
Once you moved on, you notice many different things about yourself and that you have changed and grown to be a stronger human being because surviving a breakup is really not as easy as we see in movies.
Some breakups can be a life-changing experience, and we have to go through this harsh experience all by ourselves which makes the breakup even more brutal. But one day, you will notice that your ex has magically disappeared from your thoughts, and nothing compares to that little heartbeat you hear inside at that exact second.
moved on from your ex
1No More Stalking
In order to get over your ex, you have to unfriend and unfollow them from all social media, because with their status and updates coming up daily in your newsfeed, you will be constantly remembering them.
So if they are not in your social media, then good job! You are already moving on. But, if you find yourself not stalking their profiles or pictures anymore, then congratulations! Their life does not matter to you anymore.
Although sometimes, we feel curious to see what they are up to and whether they are dating someone else already or not, this curiosity comes from a place within that did not yet accept the fact that you moved on, and we advise you to not satisfy this curiosity no matter how much it begs, it will just bring back memories that may ruin your whole moving on process.
After a breakup, we find it hard to maintain a positive attitude towards life. We become pissed at anything and ready to burst anytime, especially if we hear something related to “love” and “relationships”.
But when we move on, we start to notice the trees and the birds again, a life we all appreciate and love. To feel generally upbeat is a really good sign that you moved on. You start to be kinder, and not as angry as you were.
Also, you will notice that there is nothing wrong with love and relationships, and you may even start considering it all over again. Nothing compares to feeling like YOU again!