Last Updated on January 1, 2020
#3 – Don’t Throw All The Blame On Your Partner
If every time something happens you blame your partner, or your partner blames you, this is a sign of a toxic relationship. If either one of you goes the extra mile trying to gaslight the other, this literally translates into an emotionally abusive relationship. Don’t let it get this far – you both need to communicate and try to address your own flaws before pointing them out on the other.
#4 – Be More Laid Back
If you ask a relationship coach how you can attract someone, they will tell you to become the one, and the one will show up. This is going to leave you with a lot of anxiety because you are going to be making an extra effort to become someone’s ideal person.
Don’t do it – just relax and be yourself, and someone who likes you for who you are will come along the way. The same works for relationships – you need to be laid back with the person you intend to share your life with, otherwise, what is the point of having someone by your side that just makes your life more complicated?
If you love someone you won’t care about their hair, or about what they are wearing – you are simply going to care about them as a whole and that’s all they really need.
#5 – Be A Fair Fighter
Everyone experiences conflicts and everyone fights, but the way this fighting is handled can draw the line between an abusive relationship and a healthy one.
If you are in a long-term relationship, you probably have figured out how to best handle each other’s personalities, and this is amazing, truly, the definition of relationship goals.
There is a deep-rooted need in any relationship for free communication – where you can be vulnerable and let out all the things that are going through your mind.
Establishing that confidence in each other is important in order to allow you to verbalize critical thoughts you might have without it becoming unpleasant, aggressive or disrespectable – basically, without starting a fight, but while still being able to stand your ground and make your point.
#6 – Know When To Argue
