#1 – Your partner’s mood controls yours!
When you love and care about your partner, their happiness is your happiness and their pain is your pain. It is perfectly normal to be affected when your significant other is struggling in life and want to show him/her that you have their back.
However, when your mood is affected by the smallest changes in your partner’s mood and you always feel like you’re responsible for their foul mood, it is a sign of extreme emotional dependency.
In other words, do you swing with your partner’s mood swings and brighten up the moment they feel better and start paying attention to you?
If yes, then you already know the answer: you are losing your emotional independence and individuality, so try to be more responsible for your own moods and let other people be responsible for theirs!