1Why wouldn’t you?
If you have never been your own devil’s advocate, then this is the opportunity to do so. So instead of thinking of “do I want to marry her?” you should stop and ask yourself “why wouldn’t I do so?”
Marrying someone means accepting who they are despite all their flaws. So, ask yourself, and see if you can live forever with the things that drive you crazy about her. Don’t be shy to list all the things you don’t like, they may even make you realize many things about the whole relationship.
2Do you want to sleep and wake up next to her every day and forever?
Many people are very aware of this question, but most of them don’t realize the real truth about it. Your life after marriage will not always be filled with laughter and red roses. Life gets hard, people change, and “forever” is a really long time.
So despite everything that may happen, is she still the person you want to wake up to for the rest of your life? Don’t underestimate the power of this question because your answer to it could determine your true emotions about this whole marriage situation.