8 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Getting Sick Of You

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Last Updated on December 13, 2020

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Every romantic relationship goes through a honeymoon phase, and it’s truly amazing – kind of like a modern fairy tale. You spend a lot of time together, you rarely leave your bed, and everything points towards a successful relationship.

However, if the way your partner acts towards you starts changing, that long-lasting relationship you have wished for might be coming to an end.

We have listed 8 signs your boyfriend may be bored with you. If you happen to notice any of them, maybe it’s time to engage in some healthy communication and find out what’s going on instead of piling up negative emotions that will build up until it all turns into a toxic relationship.

1. He Keeps Ignoring Your Texts

You used to be so close that you texted all the time – you were the first person he thought about whenever something funny happened, and he always wanted to share it with you. But now you text him, and you don’t get an answer for hours.

Sometimes, you don’t get an answer at all. Well, one of the reasons he ignores you might have to do with the fact that your partner is tired of you.

Either way, if he is incapable of communicating those feelings and won’t only come forward and tells you he wants out, this is already a sign your relationship won’t last long. Our advice? Dump him and refuse to settle for someone who doesn’t respect you enough to share how they feel.

2. He Keeps Canceling Plans With You

If you are in a long-term relationship, you have already figured out how to best manage your time, so you can enjoy life as a couple, but also spend time with your friends, family, or even all by yourself.

You don’t always have to be together, even if you are in a serious relationship. On the contrary, spending time with only each other is also a relationship issue.

However, if all of a sudden, he makes plans with you and keeps canceling to hang out with someone else instead, this might be a huge sign that he wants to move on – so you should start moving on as well.

3. He Keeps Mentioning His Female Coworker

Humans are animals, and even though we decide to commit ourselves to love relationships, it’s only natural that we experience attraction towards other humans.

Your boyfriend may have a crush on someone from work, but if he keeps bringing it up, mentioning that other girl, and even comparing you to her, you should give him the boot.

First, because it is inconsiderate to compare you to someone else, and it shows a significant lack of concern about how you feel. And second, because if she is in his head so much, it’s only a matter of time before he starts questioning his feelings for you.

4. He Starts A Fight About Anything These Days

Everyone experiences relationship problems – even the people who live in a happily, balanced relationship will engage in arguments now and then. But if your boyfriend starts fighting with you about every little thing, this might be a sign he is getting tired of the relationship, and his fuse is now shorter than ever.

It is also a mechanism to justify a sudden break-up. They ignite a lot of fights so they can end things by saying something generic like “I don’t think this is going to work, we have been fighting a lot lately” – and if you are (un)lucky enough, he might even throw some gaslighting into the mix and make you think it’s your fault. Pay attention to toxic behaviors and predict their next move.

5. Your Mutual Friends Seem To Be Acting Weird

If you are in a serious relationship, it’s more than natural that you both share some friends, or are part of the same group. However, the signs he wants to break up with you can be found outside of your couple’s dynamics – the way your mutual friends act towards you can also point some things out.

If you are friends with people who were friends with your partner first, and they start acting cold, distant, or aren’t as lovely as they used to… they may know something you don’t.

6. He Threatens To Break Up With You

You keep having multiple fights, and at the end of every fight, he says something like, “so what, do you want to end things?”.

This isn’t just a simple threat, but more of a suggestion, and if it keeps popping up in every fight you two have, he is putting it out there for a reason – maybe trying to see if you agree with him so that he can leave without any blame, perhaps?

7. Being Together Feels Weird

At first, you seemed to never be able to shut up, you made all sorts of plans together, and you couldn’t wait to spend some more time with each other.

Now, there is a lot of awkward silence, you never know where to go, and he seems to dread your dates… Maybe the flame has been extinguished, and it’s time to move on.

8. He Avoids Weddings

This behavior becomes even more suspicious if you have been to weddings together and you had your fun – and now he doesn’t want to go to weddings, or appears to be bitter about being your plus one.

Maybe he feels trapped, and perhaps the idea of going to someone else’s wedding makes him feel even more trapped. But again, this is something that should be discussed between you two – so a passive-aggressive statement, like letting you know they don’t want to go to a wedding with you “just because” is also a sign that something is deeply wrong.

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