Last Updated on July 6, 2020
6. Being single doesn’t feel good
You should never waste your precious energy on looking for the perfect soulmate or at least someone who would tick most of the boxes. Because when you’re yearning for happiness, safety, and comfort with another person, you neglect to try and create these fundamental things for yourself first.
Unless you love being single and truly enjoy your own company, you’ll never be completely ready for a healthy, long-lasting relationship. So make sure to master the art of being single before you start going on dates.
Try to work on becoming the things that you so desperately seek in other people. This way, you’ll have higher chances of enjoying who you truly are as well as attracting a partner who helps you become a better version of yourself instead of completing you.
5. Communication isn’t your strong suit
If you find it hard to communicate with others, you aren’t alone. Even though communicating is difficult for many people, it’s something you can learn and improve.
Relationships are filled with all sorts of emotions and feelings more than anything else, which restrains you from expressing your wants and needs freely and frankly.
But knowing that communication is key in a relationship, you should sincerely learn to listen and be more open to what others want from you, as well as express yourself clearly before you say yes to a relationship.
4. You are looking for the perfect soulmate
We all know that no one is perfect, yet we fail to bring it to our awareness when dealing with other people, especially when it comes to romantic relationships.
You should remind yourself at all times that all human beings are both flawed and ever-changing. You will never find perfection in someone else, and even if you did at the moment you’ve met them, that wouldn’t probably be their absolute truth, which will likely change later on.
It’s best to teach yourself to accept others for all that they are, including their strengths, weaknesses, improvements, and changes. This will make it easier for you to go more with the flow of your social life.
