Last Updated on May 16, 2019
2Place Things In Perspective
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All humans are born with a natural capacity to make big deals out of void. A lot of people tend to inflate everything negative they have been through. Everything you go through in life, no matter how bad it is, is a blessing in disguise.
Next time, when you are put in similar situations, you would react in the different right way. Know why? Because you learnt from your negative experiences and know well that there is no need to inflate the problems.
Try to perceive things realistically. Don’t adopt the so-called realism found on Facebook and Instagram. It might be good for you to take a look at positive attitude books or listen to the best positive thinking audiobooks.
Not everything they say is applicable but at least relatively realistic and optimistic. Start by appreciating the simplest things in life like your shelter, food, and clothing.
3Focus On Your Great Achievements
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To avoid feeling pain and harm, large shares of people give priority to negative consequences and situations. These people have an odd spark of pessimism and negativity. They could have chosen to see things differently, but they prefer darkness over light.
If you choose to neutralize your life’s situations and consequences with a more optimistic touch, it is very easy. In fact, the terrible feelings of anxiety, remorse, and guilt will fade away. It must be noted that only you can change the way you look and assess things.
You may not recognize the power of your subconscious mind, but it is still there. It takes only a few steps of mind hacking to see things in positive shades. Always see the filled part of the glass.
4Ask People in Your Life About Their Actual Feeling
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Some people might hurt you without even realizing they do. They can ignore you for days, criticize you all the time, and pretend you are not even around. How would you feel?
Certainly awful. Imagine if you treat your beloved ones, family or friends, in the same way. How would they feel? They may not tell you they are upset or unsatisfied. You cannot keep assuming things are okay.
