1Caring about people’s business
©A Conscious Rethink
Why would you care about what other people are doing? It doesn’t matter where they are, what they did, and where they have come. Each one of us is on his/her own path and you should never compare yourself to them.
Insecurity is a big issue that needs to be addressed if you want to reach the ultimate, healthy and pure happiness. You should stop measuring your ‘behind-the-scenes’ circumstances with the public highlight of other people; it is not the real thing!
Those people have been dealing with many unfortunate circumstances that might be more difficult than yours, and yet, they kept on trying until they reached their goals.
They focused on themselves, ignored the distractions, and dedicated their energy only to themselves… aspire to be like that and get your nose out of people’s business!
2Seeking validation from others
©Women Money and Divorce
When you are happy just being who you are and without trying to impress others, then everyone will respect you. But most importantly, you will gain respect for yourself. We are going to ask you one question and you answer honestly:
What would you do differently, if we told you, that no one would judge you?
In general, no one has the right to judge you, and no matter how many times people would think they know you, no one has felt what you’ve been through… no ONE is living your life, you are! So, you need to stop seeking their validation, be who you are, and only those who can accept your life will be around you.